Cigar smoking and cigar lounges have long been a sanctuary for aficionados, offering an atmosphere where enthusiasts can gather, relax, and indulge in their love of fine cigars. But beyond the cigars themselves, there’s an art to the experience—one that involves proper etiquette, respectful behavior, and understanding the unique environment of the lounge. Whether you’re a seasoned cigar smoker or new to the world of cigars, understanding the unwritten rules of cigar smoking can enhance your experience and ensure that everyone enjoys their time.

In an article in The New York Times by Harry Hurt III suggested four basic rules of cigar etiquette:

1. Confine indoor cigar smoking to cigar parlors.
2. Don't chain-smoke cigars.
3. Don't offend non-smokers with the smell of cigar smoke on your clothes or breath.
4. Don't ask, don't tell if it's a Cuban cigar.

Cigar Smoking Etiquette

The most basic and fundamental etiquette of cigar smoke is you should never smoke except where smoking is appreciated. So if you're worried about lighting up and getting judged or criticized then you should not smoke. This way you minimize criticism from non-smokers as it relates to the smell of smoke in one's home or on your clothes. 

Cigar smoking in a lounge is an experience rooted in respect—for the space, the other smokers, and the cigars themselves. Here are some key etiquette Do's and Don'ts to ensure that your time in the lounge is enjoyable for you and everyone around you. But first what can you expect in a cigar lounge?

The Cigar Lounge Environment

A cigar lounge is more than just a place to smoke—it’s a community hub where like-minded individuals come together to share stories, enjoy cigars, and unwind in a comfortable and inviting atmosphere. These lounges are designed to create a space where smokers can relax and have a social experience. You’ll find plush seating, ambient lighting, and sometimes even a bar serving beverages that pair well with cigars. Most importantly, the lounge is equipped with everything you need to make your smoking experience as enjoyable as possible.

What to Expect in a Cigar Lounge

1. Air Quality Control: Cigar lounges are equipped with high-quality ventilation systems designed to manage smoke and ensure a comfortable environment. The air may be heavier with tobacco aroma, but it should never feel overwhelming.

2. Temperature and Humidity: A good cigar lounge will maintain the ideal temperature and humidity levels to ensure the cigars are stored properly. Some lounges even feature their own cigar humidor lockers, where members can store their personal cigars in a climate-controlled environment.

3. A Social Atmosphere: While some lounges may have areas for private smoking, many encourage socializing. Don’t be surprised if you strike up a conversation with a fellow smoker. A cigar lounge is a place for sharing knowledge, tips, and recommendations.

4. Cigar Storage or Cigar Lockers: One of the most unique features of cigar lounges is the availability of cigar storage solutions—such as cigar lockers. These lockers are perfect for cigar enthusiasts who want to store their cigars in optimal conditions. Instead of carrying your cigars around or risking damage in a pocket or bag, a locker offers a secure, climate-controlled environment. 

Do's and Don'ts of Cigar Smoking at A Lounge

Respect the Space

While a cigar lounge is a social environment, it’s essential to respect personal space. Avoid sitting too close to someone if the lounge is crowded. If you’re sharing a table, be mindful of your smoke and ensure it’s not invading someone else’s space.

Keep the Noise Level Down

Cigars and conversation go hand in hand, but it’s important to be considerate. Keep your conversations at a moderate volume so as not to disturb other guests.

Cut Your Cigar With A Cigar Cutter

Please please please use a cigar cutter to cut your cigar. Some novice or frat bro's can be seen biting a cigar to smoke it. That is the ultimate No No. There are different type of cigar cutters to pierce your stogies. You can use a straight cut, guillotine cut, v-cut, or a punch cut. 

Lighting Your Cigar

Always use a butane cigar lighter or cedar spill to light your cigar—avoid using a regular match or a lighter with a strong odor, as it can interfere with the flavor of the cigar.

Puffing Your Cigar

Cigars should be smoked slowly to enjoy the full flavor profile. Don’t puff too quickly, as this can overheat the cigar and result in a harsh, unpleasant experience.

Ashing Your Cigar

Let the ash fall naturally- IN AN ASHTRAY! Not on your clothes or the ground. When the ash reaches about an inch, it’s time to gently tap the ash into an ashtray. Don’t flick your cigar’s ash wildly, as this can make a mess and be disrespectful to others.

Be Mindful of the Smoke

Be mindful of where your smoke is drifting. In a well-ventilated lounge, this is less of an issue, but try to avoid blowing smoke directly at someone’s face. It’s considered polite to gently blow your smoke upward or away from others.

Don’t Crush Your Cigar in the Ashtray

When you’re finished with your cigar, do not crush it into the ashtray. Let it burn out naturally and place it gently in the ashtray, respecting the process of the cigar’s life cycle.

Don't Take The Band Off

Smoke your cigar down until its roughly two inches away from the band then remove it. Some people like to collect the bands as a keep sake or even a reminder to buy that cigar again

Conclusion: The Cigar Lounge Experience

Whether you’re a long-time cigar enthusiast or a newcomer to the world of cigars, a cigar lounge provides the perfect setting to enjoy your hobby. The social environment, coupled with excellent storage solutions like cigar lockers and high-quality humidor furniture, ensures that both seasoned and novice smokers can enjoy their cigars in the best possible conditions.

Remember, the key to enjoying your time at the lounge is respect—respect for the cigars, the space, and your fellow smokers. So, sit back, relax, and savor the experience, knowing that you’re in a community that shares your passion for fine cigars.